Real David H.

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For my grandfather


On Monday afternoon, my grandfather left this world at age 84. He’s the greatest man I’ve ever known for so many reasons. It has felt like the longest two days of my life — while there are certainly some sad moments, there’s been so much reflecting going on in my house with stories and looking through photo albums. We are truly celebrating his life.

In times like this, I am finding running to be such a great outlet. I took Monday off work anticipating his passing, and did what was surprisingly one of the best runs in a long time. The following morning I ran my grandpa’s favorite walking route — the “loop” in Bedford — and once again had a great run. I’m craving another run in the morning.

The next two days are going to be tough with the visitation and funeral, but I am ready to continue celebrating his life. And to me running will continue to be a way to honor him. My grandfather was the strongest man I knew and he put up the greatest fight you could image in the past five years or so.

10 responses to “For my grandfather”

  1. RunWalkRepeat Avatar
    RunWalkRepeat

    Beautiful tribute…sorry for your loss.

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  2. Barbara Avatar

    I am so sorry for your lose….but love that running was there to help you remember your grandfather in your own way. It is amazing to me how some of the best runs come at times when we would think they would be awful. Wonderful tribute

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  3. Mary Carter Avatar
    Mary Carter

    Sorry again for your loss David. Running was a great outlet for me when my PaPa passed away in 2008. I actually ran a race the evening he passed. I also made a CD of songs to help me through that time. Go Rest High on that Mountain was track 2 on that disc. Hoping that you and your family find peace during what can be a difficult time. Continue to celebrate all that he was to you and the community. Keeping your family in my prayers.

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  4. Lauren Avatar
    Lauren

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. What a wonderful tribute to your grandfather. I'm sure he will be missed.

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  5. Blanda_Amania Avatar
    Blanda_Amania

    Beautiful tribute to your Grandfather. I'm sure he will be missed sorely, but it sounds like you have many wonderful memories to recall when you get sad for him.

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  6. runnergirl training Avatar

    I'm sorry for your loss. That's beautiful what you did in his honor. Praying for your family.

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  7. Coco Avatar

    I am going through a similar time and am grateful for the happy memories and stories to balance the sadness, and for the ability to run through the tears. Prayers for you and your family. And thanks for sharing that beautiful song.

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  8. steena Avatar

    I think you're dealing with this in the healthiest way possible. Celebrating his life is the absolute best way to look at it. It's great that running is keeping you together through it too.

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  9. Michelle Avatar

    David, again I am so very sorry for the loss of your grandfather. It's great that you can reflect and celebrate his life and I'm glad running is serving as a good outlet for you. Take care.

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  10. Brandon Avatar

    Sorry again for your loss David. I'm glad that running has been such a healthy, constructive outlet for you during this time.

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