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Making the Commitment I

COMMITMENT
a pledge or promise; obligation

RESOLUTION
a resolve or determination

I’m so tired of hearing people making “resolutions.” It’s interesting to note that dictionary.com’s meaning of resolution is “a determination.” Yes, we’re all determined to do new things come Jan. 1, but it’s not a promise. It’s not a pledge. It’s not a commitment.

And that’s what I want to do throughout 2011 — make commitments. The other day on Twitter I posted something similar to this and I got a great response. There are lots of people out there ready to make commitments … but I think they missed my point. Yes, you’ve signed up for a certain race or made it a goal to run 1,000 miles in the year — those are goals. How you get to those goals is where the commitment comes in.

My eagerness to make 2011 the year of commitments comes from my own failures learning experiences this month. At the beginning of the month I was determined (or shall I say resolved) to get my weight back to the 170s. It’s just not happening. Part of why it’s not happening is because I mentioned it once, got halfway through the month just fine and then just fell apart with my diet and have gotten lazy in the past week. A complete lack of commitment.

While I will continue to not focus on an end number, I am going to commit myself to including my weight once a week on my blog. My commitment is to weigh myself Thursday and Friday and take the best of those numbers and post it at some point every weekend. So that being said, my first official 2011 weigh in will be Jan. 6/7. (Having lost weight before and knowing the evils of a scale, the two weigh-ins work well. I’d hate for a big meal the day before to ruin a week for me.)

This is just the first of many commitments. I’m not making a punch list, but instead will make this a year-long thing. As part of making commitments, I will use the #2011commitments tag on Twitter throughout the year and use that same tag for related posts here. You may have noticed a slightly different title to this post using a Roman numeral. My commitment to making commitments will be to occasionally blog using the same title to keep the theme going.

I don’t want this to fall apart in a few weeks; I’d like to take the best of the best of these posts and reflect on them a year from now. Whether I use that title 5 times or 20 times will be determined, but expect to see the tag used quite often.

So who’s in? This isn’t a Twitter challenge or something to report to me weekly on, but I welcome anyone who wants to use the same title or tag on Twitter.

6 responses to “Making the Commitment I”

  1. steena Avatar

    I'm not in.. HA..But I saw quite a few people retweeting with that hashtag today, so you've got all kinds of support in this. I personally don't even own a scale, besides my WiiFit, which can't be that accurate.
    But good idea to do the Thurs/Friday weigh in. The best part about that is you start the weekend with your weight in mind, then you won't have a Saturday splurge (like I do!).

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  2. David H. Avatar

    The commitments aren't just about blogging about my weight. It's the first of many things, I hope, over the course of 12 months. I'm not one to make a long list of goals or make a race schedule, and this will just follow a pattern of things I've done a lot of in the past year or so.

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  3. Mary Carter Avatar
    Mary Carter

    I'm back to Friday weigh ins this week. Gotta face it. It isn't going to be pretty though…

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  4. Nicki Avatar

    Not sure how I missed this when you first posted it but you know I feel the same way. I will get my commitments thought out and put in writing soon.

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  5. Gabi Avatar

    Great Blog!

    I think it's wonderful that you are taking the proactive approach to what most people call 'resolutions'.

    I think you're right in emphasising commitment – no use saying you're going to do something and then leave it at that or giving up after the first obstacle, which is what happens if the stats are true that only about 12% of adult Americans actually make work of their resolutions.

    This will be the second year that I use my New Year's Evolution to make changes in my life. It was the way I started 2010 and the results are amazing because the changes naturally started to snowball influencing other areas of my life positively too.

    Happy New Year nd all the best with your commitments for 2011!

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  6. Brandon Avatar

    I definitely like the idea of doing commitments instead of resolutions. New year's resolutions are pretty cliche at this point, especially as most of them don't make it past the end of January.

    Lately, I've taken much of the weight loss focus out of my blog, and as a result have found myself becoming more lax in my eating without the accountability. I need to recommit myself to losing the last 10-15 pounds that I'd like to lose, and posting at least semi-regular weigh-ins is the first step in that direction.

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